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Unique Baby Names
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by: Michael Barrows
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What’s in a name? Er…well, everything, really! Of
course your little bundle of joy is the sweetest, most beautiful thing you
have ever seen and you want to choose a name that reflects his/her
individuality, spirituality, uniqueness and all-round special-ness.
But wait a minute!
Remember that the unique baby name you choose will help define junior’s
life - how they are viewed and accepted - for many, many years. What sounds
cute and original for a 5-year-old, may not sound so funky for a
15-year-old…and what about a 55-year old?
Time was when only celebrities could get away with unique baby names (Zowie
Bowie, Dweezil and Moon Unit Zappa, etc), but in the modern world,
individuality is more prized than ever before, and increasingly, this
starts with our names. Great idea – but don’t allow a flash of a
self-indulgence to condemn your child to a lifetime of problems; it’s
reported that a Chinese couple named their child “Saddam Sars” to mark the
current world events at the time of the birth! I just hope it means
something nice in Mandarin, or Cantonese!
This probably wouldn’t have happened in Germany, where names can only be
registered if they recognizable, do not ridicule the child and are gender
specific. Perhaps there is at least one Chinese child in the world, who
will grow up wishing he/she were German!
So – assuming you are not German - what should you do if you want to create
a unique baby name, without creating too many problems? Here are some tips
and some warnings to make the process less painful:
1. Anagrams: try creating an anagram of an existing name.
2. Father and Mother: try using derivatives of one of the parents’ names,
or a combination of both. Alternatively, how does the mother’s maiden name
sound as a first name?
3. Telescoping: try dropping letters from another name or a word, until you
get a nice-sounding name.
4. Spelling: an unusual spelling of a common name creates uniqueness.
However, remember that your child will be condemned to a lifetime of
“…that’s David spelt D..A..Y..V..I..D…” conversations.
5. Pronunciation: another trick is to pronounce a common name in an unusual
way. But this can also lead to a lifetime of corrections and explanations –
as well as teasing and accusations of pretentiousness.
6. History: do some research into names that were popular in previous eras,
but have become less so.
7. Family History: are there any unusual baby names that can be used to
honor family members or ancestors? But beware family politics…
8. Nature: many names come from the natural world, particularly flowers
(e.g. Rose) and it’s a great source for unique baby names (e.g. Gwyneth
Paltrow’s daughter Apple).
9. Geography: another useful source of great names - grab an atlas and
start searching. David and Victoria Beckham called their first son
Brooklyn, which many people think is a cool-sounding name. However, it’s
reported that the choice was made because that’s where conception took
place. Hmmm, imagine a lifetime in which your name is a constant reminder
of your parents having sex! Eeeuuuuww!!!
10. Celebrities: famous people with slightly unusual names are a common
source of inspiration. There are lots of teenage “Kylie”s running around
the UK since Kylie Minogue’s arrival on the music scene at end of the
‘80’s, and her recent resurgence, will have created a second wave of them.
And I’m sure many little “Be’yonce”s have been popping up over the last few
years. The only problem is that names like these very soon begin to sound a
little silly and “wannabe”.
11. Foreign Names: consider using a foreign version of a name, e.g., Pedro,
instead of Peter. Or try using a name from a completely different
culture.
12. Nicknames: try using a nickname e.g. Angie, instead of Angela or
Angelina. However, make sure the name is will pass the “age test” – see
number 17 below.
13. Middle Names: a great way to accommodate individuality when naming your
baby, is to combine a common first name with a unique second/middle name.
The benefit of this is that your child can avoid embarrassment throughout
his/her life by ignoring it of keeping it hidden.
14. Initials: when you have settled on some names, check that the initials
aren’t embarrassing. This is an easy trap to fall into and can lead to a
lifetime of misery. “Zina Indigo” are may be nice sounding names for your
lovely daughter, but make sure your surname doesn’t begin with “T”!
15. First Name-Surname: check how the selected first name combines with the
surname. Make sure the two names do not create some something recognizable,
to prevent a lifetime of teasing. Also, check the rhythm of the two names;
a different number of syllables in each name usually flows much better.
Avoid rhyming the 2 names at all costs or your child will hate you
forever!
16. The loudness test: try saying the name softly, at normal pitch and
shouting it very loudly. You may be surprised at the results.
17. The age test: try to visualize your child with the name as a baby, as a
teenager, as a young adult, a mature adult and as a senior citizen. A name
can create completely different perceptions of the individual at separate
stages of life.
18. The meaning: the final test of the name that you choose should be to
check its meaning (if any). Don’t leave your child open to getting a nasty
surprise later in life.
Whatever name you decide, don’t fall into the trap of self-indulgence.
Remember, it’s not about you, it’s all about your child. Your grand design
to celebrate the uniqueness of this new human being, may eventually lead to
a lifelong, desperate desire for conformity and anonymity. Even Zowie Bowie
eventually changed his name to “Joey”…
About the Author:
Michael Barrows is a web
publisher specialising in niche marketing. Check out the wealth of baby
resources and pick up the FREE ebook "Baby Tips for New Parents" at his
website: http://www.all-about-baby-names.com.
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